The good news is, those urges are normal. Sex can be beneficial for your relationship and your own health. In fact, masturbation is good for you.
Use this knowledge to allow yourself to open up, but take baby steps if you’re feeling unsure. Try adding lingerie, for example. 10 tips for choosing the right lingerie here. Or you can learn how to be more confident when riding your man and surprise him the next time you have sex.
5. Break Out of Your Routine
No matter what you do, don’t get caught up in routine. Have sex in different rooms, locations outside of the house, at different times of the day and in different positions.
This allows you to experiment and find ways in which you’re compatible. It also ensures that you don’t get stuck in a rut doing something that only one of you likes (or that neither of you loves!).
6municate, Communicate, Communicate
If you haven’t yet caught on, communication is essential to good sex and being sexually compatible. No one expects you to be a mind reader or a psychic. Feel free to ask your man what he wants and to tell him what he needs to do for you to enjoy yourself.
Taking out the guesswork saves a lot of time or hassle, and you should feel comfortable enough to be direct about most things in your relationship. In fact, you might find that you’re more sexually compatible than you thought just by discussing your issues!
7. Focus on the positive.
Finally, focus on the ways in which you and you man are sexually compatible. Researchers have discovered that individuals who felt they were sexually compatible were more satisfied with their sex lives than those who only had the same turn-ons alone . Interesting how that works!
Although everyone has their own sexual preferences, you can set a precedent for a healthy and steamy sex life by encouraging sexual compatibility between yourself and your partners.
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- Having a man who constantly looks at you like he wants to rip your clothes off.
- Other women becoming jealous of your relationship and how your man treats you.
- A guy who makes excuses to his buddies and cancels on them so he can spend more time with you.
- A man who can’t keep his hands off you.
You’re also going to hear a story of how one woman used them to overcome a potential divorce and make her marriage stronger and more passionate than she ever thought possible.
Women also often have difficulty talking about sex and asking for what they need and want for a variety of reasons. Women are often taught to be agreeable and to suppress their sexual urges regardless of how hurtful this can be. Again, our guide to sexual communication can help (read it here).
Sexual compatibility increases exponentially when you become more open-minded. A conservative or religious upbringing can make this difficult. And you e over your sexual urges if you were taught that they were bad.